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March 10, 2010

The Wedding Checklist

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We talk a lot about different things as they pertain to a wedding.  The one thing we’ve yet to do is have a wedding checklist, which everyone can look at and use as a guide to helping them make sure they don’t forget anything.  So, here’s our list, and this is after the couple has gotten engaged, as well as time frames.

Immediately

Discuss a prenuptial agreement if there’s any kind of monetary issues. involved.  Waiting   until later will cause more problems than it’s worth. Discuss the issue of wanting children or not; same reason as above Discuss any issues of religion; same reason as above.

Things To Plan As Soon As Possible

Plan the date; this drives everything else. Where the wedding will take place. You have to book this way in advance because other couples will be doing the same thing. This also gives you the chance to plan the type of wedding you’ll have, such as how long, very religious or not, how many songs, readings, etc. Where the reception will be. One reason is because other couples will be doing the same thing. Another reason is that it helps you set your budget for the wedding early, since the reception is the biggest expense. Book a photographer Book the wedding cake maker Book the limousine, if you’re getting one Order your invitations, then get them out as soon as possible Book the flowers Book the day of the wedding for make up, hair, and other personal things like this Book the band, DJ, and music type Select the wedding dress Book the date for the tuxedos Plan the menu with a caterer

Things To Do Within The Final Two Weeks

Check on everything to make sure everyone is ready for the big day Verify that the groomsmen have picked up their tuxes Check the weather, and make contingencies as necessary Do a drive through as far as how you hope the wedding day will go, if necessary Check your emotions; this is the time when things tend to get tense for couples

Day Before The Wedding

Check on decorations both where you’re getting married and where the reception is Verify that everyone in the wedding party is in town and ready to go Make sure the food and cake for the reception is all set to go Follow up with anyone you haven’t already heard from in the two weeks beforehand After the rehearsal dinner, relax and settle down; big day tomorrow

Day Of The Wedding

Though there’s a lot you might think you have to do on your wedding day, there are only two important things.  Get to where the wedding is supposed to be, then get married.  Everything else will fall into place as it’s supposed to, whether it’s perfect or not.  Have fun, and enjoy your day.

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March 7, 2010

Wedding Planning Timeline Checklist

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Congratulations on your engagement. Now it’s time to go to work and plan the wedding of your dreams. With a little preparation (and a sense of Humor!) there is no need to act like a bridezilla.

Here is a checklist to help you keep your sanity.

9-12 Months before the wedding

Announce your engagement. Plan what type of wedding you want- formal, informal, day or evening, number of guests Choose a wedding date. Determine your budget- Discuss who is responsible for what expenses before making any plans. You should include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion. Remember to treat them with respect. Any money they provide is a gift! Make guest list – Don’t forget to include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion. Speak to officiant- Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Justice of the Peace etc. Reserve your ceremony and Reception Sites.

6-9 Months Before Wedding

Select Bridal Gown Choose your attendants- Maid/Matron of Honor, Best Man, Bridesmaids, Ushers, Flowergirls, and Ring Bearer Choose a Photographer Select bridesmaids dresses & accessories (Remember to be Kind and listen to their suggestions and concerns). Select a caterer (if needed) Hire a band or DJ Book your florist

4-5 Months Before Wedding

Schedule fittings for yourself and attendants (don’t forget your flower-girl) Reserve any rental items needed for ceremony and reception Finalize guest list Order Stationery – wedding invitations, thank you notes, and wedding programs Address invitations or hire a professional calligrapher Plan rehearsal dinner – set date, time and location. (This dinner is usually given by the grooms’ parents.) Arrange for accommodations for out-of-town guests. Start planning honeymoon (Groom usually makes these arrangements after you BOTH decide where to go.) Don’t forget to get any passports or travel documents you may need. Register for gifts. Purchase shoes and accessories (Remember to break your shoes in before the wedding)

2-3 Months Before Wedding

Order wedding cake Order party favors Order all necessary decorations Book all transportation for wedding day (if necessary) Buy wedding rings Visit lawyer to write any necessary wills or prenuptial agreements

5-8 Weeks Before Wedding

Purchase gifts for wedding attendants Mail invitations (A map to assist your guests in finding the ceremony and reception sites is a nice idea). Visit hairstylist to determine what style you want for your hair. (Hint: Never change haircolor or change your style right before your wedding. Any changes should be made at least 3-4 weeks in advance). Have a formal wedding portrait taken Send wedding announcements to newspapers (if necessary) Change name and address on driver’s license, social security cards, insurance policies, and bank accounts Reserve wedding attire for groom, ushers, ring bearer (Usually done by the groom). Mail invitations to rehearsal dinner (if necessary) Obtain marriage license Get blood tests if necessary in your state Plan a bridesmaid luncheon

2-4 Weeks Before Wedding

Confirm ceremony details with officiant Arrange final fittings for your gown and bridesmaids dresses Make final floral selections Finalize rehearsal dinner plans Confirm details with all service providers – It is a good idea to give them a written list of your wedding day timeline. Contact guests who have not yet responded to your invitation Pick up wedding rings Meet with your photographer to discuss special photos you want taken. Meet with your DJ or band to confirm the music you want played Remind all attendants (male & female) when to pick up their wedding attire. Purchase any special accessories or make-up you want your attendants to wear. Determine ceremony seating for any special guests (give the list to the ushers). Plan reception seating-write names on place cards.

Hold On….Your Almost Done! Last Week

Pick up wedding attire Figure final guest count and notify cater Arrange for “get-a-way” car from the reception Review the schedule of events and last minute arrangements with all service providers. Confirm honeymoon reservations Pack for your honeymoon

Take a Breath…..It’s Finally Here….Your Wedding Day!!!!

Give rings to the best man and maid of honor (If no ring Bearer) Give the best man money to pay the officiant after the ceremony Relax and have fun!!! All your hard work and planning has paid off.

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